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« on: January 15, 2006, 07:57:44 PM »

The boys had several mutts for pets and when the boys left home and the last pet died, a collie border collie mix called Specs, a friend of ours bought us a registered Collie for our Anniversary.   Her name was Tally's Country Miss and we called her Misty.  She came to us on Feb. 4, 1981.

It just so happened that Misty was in heat and the Activity Director at the home we operated owned a registered male Collie......we were in business.  The male collie, Ace of Spades xiii came a courting and on April 14 Misty whelped 9 perfect puppies.  

 The runt of the litter which I carried to the home daily on a heating pad and made sure she got to feed when all the other pups were asleep, became endeared to us and there was no way we could let her go so we became a 2 dog family.

We offered the pups free to friends we knew would love and care for them with the stipulation that we name them.  Our runt was named Misty's Little Bit of Gold and we called her Little Bit, although she didn't stay little very long.  Misty's Fancy Lady called Fancy, went to my beautician, Misty's Brandy Sniffer, called Brandy, went to a friend,  Misty's Waltzing Boots, called Boots went to a co-worker, Misty's Country Patchwork, called Patches went to a co-worker, Misty's Black Velvet called Velvet, went to the niece and nephew of the friends who gave us Misty, Misty's Aces Over, called Ace went to our Secretary at the home, Misty's Little Black Sambo, called Sambo went to the owner of the Sire and Misty's Country Buccaneer went to Butterfly.  They were all beautiful dogs and hard to part with, but 10 dogs, we didn't need!

Misty and Little Bit ruled the roost, but Misty became ill and had to have frequent transfusions.  On July 4, 1983, Misty died of Leukemia.

We cried and buried her in the back yard.  George had the local funeral director make her a grave marker.  Little Bit laid beside her grave and mourned her mother.

On 9-25-83, we invited Ace of Spades back for another romp in the hay........ grin  This dog was beginning to like our house!

On 11-27-83, Little Bit whelped 6 perfect puppies and one with a cleft palate that didn't make it.  Once again we kept the runt of the litter an once again we gave the pups to friends and family we knew would take care of them.

Bit's Bit O Pepper went to the owner of the sire.  Bit's Bit O Honey was the runt we kept.  Bit's Bit O Ginger went to my son Paul, Bit's Bit O Mist went to a special friend Carrie, Bit's Bit O Cinnamon went to Cathy, my special foster daughter, and Bit's Bit O Luck went to Butterfly.

Little Bit and Honey became our kids.  They welcomed us home after a hard days work, they guarded the yard against intruders, they kept us company and were protective of Shawn and Nikki when they were with us.

Honey became ill like Misty.  She died on Oct 22, 1986.  We had an autopsy done and found that she had died of Paraquat poisoning (agent orange)  The farmer had sprayed the cotton field behind us with Harvaide laced with Paraquat (which was banned) to get a harder kill.  Honey had a hot spot under her flank that was being treated by the vet and that is where the vet suspected the poison entered her system.  Paraquat can only enter the system through a break in the skin.  The Kindergarten was locate on the other side of the Cotton field and that farmer cared more about his cotton field than the fact he could have harmed one of those children.  Of course he denied using it, but I had the papers from the University of Missouri and the testimony of area farmers that tested the leaves on the plants.

Little Bit died on Jan. 9, 1990 and we buried her on the grounds at the store.  On my birthday Jan. 12,1990, the same friend who bought us Misty bought me a new Collie Pup.  He was a beautiful black 8 week old collie named Debonair's Mr. Top Notch.  He was show material but his owner had dropped a bottle on his tail that necessitated amputation.  To much of his tail was gone to make a show dog out of him.

Topper endeared himself to us and became more George's dog than mine.  We kept him at the store for security purposes.  He would bark at the falling leaves..... grin  He was loved by all the kids kept us entertained with his antics.  He was deathly afraid of storms and would dig under the fence and disappear during a storm seeking refuge in a neighbors garage or inviting himself into their homes.  They all knew him and looked out for him.

Topper died in Georges arms in August 2001 the day my dad was diagnosed with Cancer.  He is buried under the Maple in the back yard.  It will be a while before I want another dog.  We can't replace the ones we've had and it's too painful to lose another.
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« Reply #1 on: January 17, 2006, 07:29:55 AM »

As a former employer, I know how important it is to praise employees for the good work they do.  I wonder how many employers out there tend to forget that basic unwritten rule. 

My grandson approached me yesterday with this very problem.  He works two jobs.  At the day job his employer tells him what a hard worker he is and never fails an opportunity to praise.  My grandson says even though he may get chewed out for something, the fact that the employer praises him for the good work he does, makes him want to work harder for that employer.

On the other hand his night employer never has a good word for any of his employees.   He never fails to point out their failures on a daily basis.  My grandson loves the job but because he feels like a failure at it, it is becoming a burden and he is thinking of quiting.  He feels the bosses attitude drags him down and he makes more mistakes because of it. 

I have worked in those environments and I know that people who are unhappy in their jobs usually carry it over into other parts of their lives.  Last week he went to the doctor for tests to find out why he is nauseated, vomiting, has stomach cramps, and is losing weight......I think I know the answer before he gets the test results..........ULCER.

He finally found someone to work on his car and it is in the garage.  He only has half of it paid for and cannot afford to quit this job, however, no job is worth ruining your health over.  I know the decision has to be his and I pray he will make the right one.

I advised him to talk to his boss and tell him how he felt  before he did anything.
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« Reply #2 on: January 16, 2007, 10:14:02 PM »

Time for a yearly blog??
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« Reply #3 on: January 16, 2007, 11:25:29 PM »

I can't get excited about blogging.  All my blogs are floating out there in cyberspace....... cry
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« Reply #4 on: January 17, 2007, 10:31:47 AM »

('v') Hi, GA,  I just meant a little one for this little spot since the last one here was a year ago. I miss reading your blogs. I get very tired of mine. I'm always eager for any Collett memories, like Mr. Firebaugh's square dancing instructions? Did Collett actually have school dances? And all that stuff! Bye, {'~'}
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« Reply #5 on: February 28, 2007, 01:40:38 PM »

Everyday I see employment ads in the paper with the statement “equal opportunity employer" attached.  What exactly does that mean?  Well, it should mean that the employer would hire you, if you met the qualifications, regardless of your race, age, or handicap.  However, this seems to be a meaningless statement required, in some cases, by the government.

People who are aged have a hard time making ends meet and need to find some means of making an extra dollar.  A healthy elderly person can be an asset to most businesses merely by being reliable, hard working and having a wealth of experience to draw from.

The old adage “If you don’t use it, you lose it.” is true, especially as you get older.  A healthy senior citizen can quickly become incapacitated by doing nothing after leading an active life.  They soon feel useless and become depressed. 

My husband George is 80 years old, worked all his life and is now unemployed.  He has been seeking employment since August without success.  Out of all the applications he submitted only one called him for an interview.  No one is even interested in what he is capable of doing. 

He was in his last position for 6 ½ years and only missed 3 days due to illness.  Two of those days, his employer sent him home.  Previous to that we operated our own business and worked for 13 years, 7 days a week, 16 hours a day and never missed a day.

He is somewhat forgetful, but then I know 40 year olds who can't remember the time of day, so what's new?

If you have a business, give yourself a break and hire a senior citizen......you will both be winners.
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« Reply #6 on: February 28, 2007, 06:14:44 PM »

What about restaurants looking for a host?  He likes to cut up with people doesn't he?  Take reservations, show people and menus to the table?  We have to keep thinking about this, there must be an employer out there somewhere who will think past age.  There are so many of us who will be out there in the workforce for a good many years. Hotel desk clerk?
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« Reply #7 on: February 28, 2007, 08:57:16 PM »

GA, I just want you to know that I admire that spirit in your husband at that age.  I wonder if he could be an independent contractor in any way? There might be some employers who would go for that in that it is less expensive that way than all the taxes, etc. being taken out. Instead of a W2 form, you get a 1099 for "non-employee compensation".
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« Reply #8 on: February 28, 2007, 10:53:32 PM »

A local vet advertised for a nurse to help in his clinic.  George answered the ad.  We knew this vets parents.  His mother was my consulting Dietician when we had the nursing home.  His concern was liability.  He didn't think George could handle lifting the big dogs onto the table.  Now we have age and liability as a concern. 

Thanks guys for your suggestions.  They are appreciated.  The problem is finding someone to give him a chance.

We are headed to the VA in Cape Girardeau tomorrow for an initial doctors visit to get him a VA card so he can go to the VA hospital in Poplar Bluff and have them look into his hearing problem.  He has no health problems and takes no medication................
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« Reply #9 on: March 25, 2007, 07:53:05 PM »

The trip to the VA Clinic was interesting.  The nurse ushered George into her office, took his B/P, temperature and ask him some medical history questions.  Then she gave him a stool culture kit and explained it's use, and introduced him to the doctor who looked in his ears, up his nose and down his throat.  He too ask a few medical history questions then checked George's ankles for edema.  He dismissed him with an appointment to come back for a fasting blood sugar.

On March 13th we made the trip again for the fasting blood sugar.  It only took about 5 minutes, hardly worth the high gas prices and the 40 minute drive.  The next day, the doctor, who is a foreigner with a thick accent, called to tell us George's HGBA1C test was 10.8.  Normal is 6.  He said he was putting George on medicine for diabetes.....   When I told George, he bristled and said we would seek a second opinion and he wouldn't be taking any medication!  I called our family doctor and arranged for another fasting blood sugar on Friday March 16.

Our family doctor talked with us for about 30 minutes.  He brought me one of his medical books and highlighted a paragraph about not making a diabetes diagnosis on a HGBA1C test alone.  George displayed no other symptoms, no excessive thirst, no frequent urination, no unusual weight loss, no irritability (only the usual.... undecided).  I filled him in on the fact that George drank 3-5 Dr Pepper's a day, ate sweets before, after, during and in between meals and had gotten very little exercise in the past 6 months plus the fact that he was 80 years old!  He informed us that the blood sugar was high, 190, but to cut out the soda, sweets, start mowing the lawn and see him again in a couple of months.  No medication! 

When we got home there was a letter from the VA requesting George to have an eye exam because of his "diabetes."  George refused.  He had cataract surgery in July and a recent follow up exam from his family eye doctor.  Everything was fine.  The hearing test has been changed twice since they scheduled it.  We will be driving to Dexter to a private vendor to have the test on Tuesday.  The VA is so behind on their hearing screenings that they have hired private vendors to help them catch up. 

The VA is under fire but, all this just for a hearing test!  It smacks of one part of our government sucking off another part.  George is rated a Level 5 so that means they will bill Medicare and our private insurance for any care he gets.  As a WW II vet he should be entitled to a little consideration for free care.  Then again when I think of all he has gone through for a hearing test......I think we will stick with our family physician.................... .......... rolleyes
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« Reply #10 on: March 26, 2007, 09:18:03 AM »

Sorry about all the bureaucracy and the gasoline.

Might be worth it to have another H1ac test in a few months.

Though I have NO credentials, still, I'd say that to live to 80 you have to be doing something right regardless of what the MD's propose.

The funny thing for me is that now after all those decades of pop I think the sugar-free pop tastes good and the real stuff tastes yucky! Most be some sort of "brainwashing"--
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« Reply #11 on: March 26, 2007, 10:08:39 AM »

I guess I am "brainwashed" too because I like the sugar free better although I don't drink much of any of it any more. 
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« Reply #12 on: March 27, 2007, 08:50:21 AM »

Not to repeat, but I still think it's fascinating that now the artificially sweetened drinks taste more "right" to me.
I remember trying to drink a "Tab" probably in the 70's and disliked it so much I wondered how anyone could stand it. I drank regular Coke back then like it was water. Now the "real thing" has a "too-sweet" taste to it to me. 

Maybe a lot of things we believe are "all in our heads". Afterall, my taste buds probably are the same as back then, perhaps less sensitive.... So, some mind change has come into play......

Does that mean we could somehow be coaxed into thinking that loud car "thump-thump" noise was beautiful music?? (I'll leave that rhetorically.)
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« Reply #13 on: March 29, 2007, 10:49:35 AM »

The hearing test on Tuesday was very professional, however, since the results have to be sent to the VA, we are not likely to hear anything about it for a good 4-6 weeks so it's on with repeating myself several times so that George can hear what I say.  If I talk in normal tones he can't hear, if I raise my voice he gets upset.......maybe we need to learn sign language.................. grin
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« Reply #14 on: May 24, 2007, 05:42:10 PM »

A desturbing article in our local paper caused me to write this blog.

A member of the Sikeston community was cited by officers for supplying alcohol to minors at a party at his home on Sunday after the graduation ceremony of a local (not Sikeston) high school.  This man, who at one time was a very good friend of my oldest son, showed no remorse and said "he didn't care how much it cost him, he would do it again."  The officers also issued 26 citations for underage possession.  The students were from 7 Missouri communities and 1 Illinois community, but all were graduates from a Catholic high school in this area.

I cannot imagine what would possess a 49 year old former ministers son to do such a thing and then show no remorse.  He put everyone of those kids at risk because most of them resided in other communites and were driving.  Makes a person wonder what this world is coming to................... BangHead
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